Exactly two months ago today I moved to university. Living alone for the first time in 18 years was both a massive shock to the system and a massive learning curve, and I feel like I've been here for years but also like the whole thing is still temporary - as if I'm on holiday and next week I'll be going back to my mum and dad.
Although I haven't been here for a huge amount of time I've definitely learned a lot, so here's a succinct list of the 'top ten' things uni life has taught me so far:
1. The importance of time keeping
I cannot stress how helpful this is. There is a reason it's number one on the list.
My tutors mentioned how much time management would help me and others on my course, but I dismissed it because I seem to have this profound ability to ignore information that's actually really useful.
But a few weeks ago (when my first proper deadlines were quickly approaching) I felt like I was being suffocated the amount of work I had to do. Seriously, if you're thinking of going to university/further education, make sure you manage your time effectively. It'll save your life.
2. Don't dismiss supermarkets like Aldi and Lidl
Why buy a cucumber for 49p from Morrisons when you can buy one for 22p from Aldi?
There's literally no difference except for the fact that you're bank balance will be so much better off because of it.
3. Cheaper make-up is a God-send
I freaked out when I realised I was going to be a on £30 a week budget, mainly because I was worried I wouldn't be able to afford the foundation I normally buy. So before going to university, I decided to do a test-run of some cheaper makeup and I was very pleasantly surprised.
Where before I used to spend over £10 on my foundation, I now spend no more than £6 and it does exactly the same (if not better) job.
4. You should always take the time to make your money go further
Buying in bulk when there's an offer on, or investing in a larger box of cereal or something that gives you 50% extra for free is always worth it. Even if you think 'I could never eat that many cornflakes in my entire life' - you should do it, because the chances are you will eat that many cornflakes and you'll be thanking your past self for deciding to splash out a little more money, because it's worth it in the long run.
5. Pre drinking is always a good idea
I'm not going to advocate drinking to excess on this blog, because naturally I would never dream of getting drunk. Ahem.
But one way to make sure you spend less money when you're on a night out, is to have a few drinks before. This minimizes the number of drinks you'll buy yourself whilst out, and also mean you tend to have a better time wherever you go and will be less likely to leave and pay to get into another club or bar.
6. 'Cool' doesn't exist
I thought I would leave the idea of the 'cool' and 'uncool' when I left secondary school at the age of sixteen, but unfortunately the concept of popularity still plagued the college I went to for the next two years of my life.
But I am pleased to tell you all that university finally manages to shake off this concept.
I think it's because the majority of people at university have moved away from home and so everyone is keen to make friends, and because of this people open themselves up to socialising with those that they may have otherwise regarded as 'uncool' or 'too cool' for them.
7. My parents did A LOT
I'm almost ashamed to admit that I never really thought about how much my mum and dad did for me whilst I lived at home.
Since moving away I've begun to notice that doing work all day, coming home and cooking food, and then cleaning up after yourself constantly (cause nobody else is gonna do it for you) is actually really tiring and time consuming.
8. Unplanned nights are the best
Some of the best nights out I've been on since coming to university are the ones that are organised in the last minute. Sometimes just dropping all sense of responsibility and sensibleness is a really great way to start a night.
9. New jewelry can be used make an outfit different - not new clothes
If you're struggling to make old clothes work in new ways, instead of buying a new top or some new jeans - try purchasing a new necklace or something. It costs so much less than buying a new item of clothing and can genuinely make an outfit feel new again.
10. Cooking is an art form
Knowing what to cook, planning it out, understanding what flavours go with what and managing not to set the fire alarm at the same time is a feat only few people can manage.
If you happen to be one of those few, I have major respect for you.